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Updated: Mar 17

lost in the chaos without purpose

In a world full of noise and confusion, it's easy to feel totally lost, like you're just drifting without any real direction. When you don't have a clear purpose in life, every day can feel like a struggle. You're constantly battling with fear, doubt, and uncertainty, never really sure of where you're headed. It's like you're stumbling around in the dark, not knowing which way to turn.


Living without purpose is like being stuck in a thick fog. You can't see where you're going, and you're always second-guessing yourself. Fear holds you back, making it hard to take any real steps forward. You feel like you're just going through the motions, without any real joy or meaning in your life. But don't worry, there's a way out of this chaos.


"Without dreams and goals, there is no living, only merely existing, and that is not why we are here." - Mark Twain 

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Woman thinking about her life purpose

your body, your life, is speaking to you all the time

When you're lost without a clear sense of purpose, your body starts sending signals loud and clear that you're out of sync with your true life path. Life feels like a chaotic whirlwind, every decision feels uncertain, leaving you feeling lost and disconnected. Health problems begin to surface, starting small but gradually escalating as stress becomes overwhelming. Amidst all this chaos, there's still this subtle rhythm—a whispering voice urging you to find your purpose in life.


Your body speaks to you in a language of discomfort, unease, and disquiet—a physical manifestation of being off-course from your true purpose. As the chaos of life intensifies, so too do the health issues, acting as constant reminders that your actions are not quite aligned with the authentic path created for you. It's not just your body speaking to you; your life also communicates through the chaos or drama it presents when you're not aligned with your true purpose.

listening to the divine whispers

In the midst of life's uncertainties, there's an opportunity to tune in and truly listen to the divine whispers of our inner selves, a realm I often refer to as "quiet." As we navigate through the chaos, embracing the practice of deep listening, we begin to decipher the messages our lives are conveying, each moment presenting a clue to our true path. When we learn deep listening in our place of quiet, we find direction. It is then, beyond the external turmoil lies an internal compass, always pointing us towards our authentic journey – our true purpose.


Meditation serves as a powerful tool for honing our ability to tune into our quiet and creates space for us to connect deeply with our inner selves. In this state of inner stillness, we become more attuned to the divine whispers which can lead us towards our true purpose in life. Whether we perceive this guidance as intuition, a divine presence, or simply an inner knowing, the voice within us holds profound wisdom and insight. Through regular meditation practice, we can cultivate a deeper connection to this inner voice, allowing it to illuminate our path and guide us towards a life of fulfillment and purpose.


"Your intuition knows what to do. The trick is getting your head to shut up so you can hear." - Louise Smith

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Man stressed out about life

stepping out with confidence

Living with purpose takes courage—the guts to jump into the unknown with arms wide open. Every day gives us a chance to get closer to what we really want. Setting goals and taking steps toward those goals is how we make our dreams come true. Yet, it can be tough sometimes, but every challenge is a chance to grow and learn. With courage and purpose as our guides, we can handle whatever life throws our way.


Here are the steps to get started:

(1)  Dream Big: Start with a vision that lights up your soul. Imagine what your ideal life would look like and let it guide you forward.


(2)  Embrace Boldness: Ask yourself, "What if I went all-in and pursued my wildest dreams?" Listen closely to your heart's whispers and let them lead you to your true calling.


(3)  Stay Focused: Don't let doubt and distractions derail you. Surround yourself with supportive people who uplift you and keep you focused on your goals.


(4)  Take the Leap: Don't be afraid to step into the unknown or if you are afraid – do it anyway. Every step forward, no matter how small, brings you closer to your authentic self. So, celebrate your progress and keep moving forward on this incredible journey of self-discovery!


guiding you toward clarity and confidence: your path to purpose

Amidst life's chaos, finding purpose is crucial for fulfillment. Ready to embark on this transformative journey of self-discovery? Let's navigate this path together, uncovering your true purpose and unlocking your full potential. As your guide, I'll provide the support and tools you need to clarify your goals, overcome obstacles, and live with intention. Take the first step towards a more purposeful life. Reach out to start your journey today!

“Somewhere deep inside your soul, there exists a quiet place where truth, direction, and hidden strength lies. Learn to tap into this well of knowledge and it will carry you to places you have never even dreamed existed.” – Coach Delisa Deavenport


Many years my friend, many years…

Coach Delisa

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Coach Delisa


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